When 90 seconds isn’t enough time to reach a shelter
Quick reponse
Within 24 hours of the first rockets landing in Israel, Beit Issie Shapiro set up a special hotline, manned by a team of psychologists and social workers, to address concerns of parents of disabled children. “Our main goal was to restore the confidence of these parents, who feel absolutely helpless at times like these,” says Maor.
Because autistic children tend to be sensitive to noise, he reports, many had very bad responses to the sounds of sirens. “We had parents who called in saying their children were screaming and would not cooperate when they wanted to move them to a shelter,” says Maor. “What we advised them to do was to practice the routine of moving to a safe space, and many found that this was a tremendous help in overcoming their anxieties.”
While it’s fine for parents of high-functioning children to answer questions from their little ones about the security situation in great detail, says Maor, the hotline specialists recommend they be more selective when disseminating information to children with intellectual disabilities. “What’s important for these children to understand is that there will be a change in their routine. They don’t need to know why Hamas is sending rockets to Israel.”
In a case involving the elderly, he reports, a feuding couple called the hotline for advice after the wheelchair-bound husband instructed his wife to go down the stairs to the building bomb shelter, and she refused, preferring to be at his side. “They just kept yelling at each other,” says Maor, “so what we advised them was to get one of their adult children involved.”
According to the latest study published by the Joint Distribution Committee, roughly 1 million people in Israel (about 25 percent of the adult working-age population) suffer from disabilities. Another 310,000 children have some form of disability, says Maor, in line with rates elsewhere in the world.
Since the onset of fighting between Israel and Hamas almost two weeks ago, the JDC has beefed up its volunteer staff in the south, the closest target for rockets launched from Gaza, in order to tend to the approximately 70,000 adults with disabilities living in that part of the country, particularly those who are housebound.
According to the latest JDC figures, more than 805,000 individuals in Israel are over the age of 65, with their share in the total population on the rise since the start of the millennium.
Sleeping in security
On its website, the Home Front Command recommends that if they cannot get to the nearest shelter in time, individuals with limited mobility should consider creating an alternative safe space or turning their sleeping area into one. It also recommends that the path to the safe space be cleared in advance to avoid tripping on obstacles, and that the wheelchair bound have spare batteries on hand just in case their motors conk out.
In the event that they are unable to use an elevator to reach the nearest shelter, the Home Front Command recommends they prepare themselves to be carried by others.
For some children of elderly parents, however, it’s become a matter of balancing risks these days. “My father needs a walker to get around, and it takes a while to get him out of his seat,” says a Tel Avivian, who asked that his name not be published. “We figured that it was riskier to get him to the bomb shelter, which requires that he go down some stairs, than to keep him sitting in his usual place in front of the TV. The chances of the house taking a direct hit, we figured, were smaller than his falling trying to make his way to the safe space in less than a minute and a half. All we asked is that he sit away from the windows so if shrapnel falls in the yard and the windows break, he doesn’t get cut.”
Judy Maltz